Famous Taurus-Aquarius Couples: Uma Thurman and Arpad Brusson; Valerie Bertinelli and Eddie Van Halen; Nora Ephron and Carl Bernstein
I guess it is possible for any two people to get together on some basis, but this is a wild stretch of the astrological imagination. Taurus is so conservative and Aquarius is so out there it is hard to conceive of these two having a single thing in common except their stubbornness. Furthermore, Taurus is interested in money and material well being while Aquarius could care less as long as he has an ideal that he can dedicate his life to.
How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Taurus Woman: Show your intelligence and detach from the personal. Focus instead on the issues that surround him. You are probably going to meet him as a member of a group working for a positive goal for the community, so take advantage of those circumstances to create conversation. Aquarius is fanatically loyal, so you should believe in his cause or at least be willing to learn more about it. If you don’t think you can commit to it, you’d better leave him alone.
How to Attract a Taurus Woman as an Aquarius Man: If you are interested in a Taurus lady who has her own finances, you have a good shot of wooing her with your glamorous lifestyle. She spends a lot of time doing simple things like housework, gardening, sewing, paying the bills, cooking, and shaving her legs. Your causes and vast network of interesting “friends” can really be attractive to her if she’s got a stable life of her own she can always go back to. Be respectful of her needs and take the time to explain things to her carefully and you should find that she is willing to join you on some exciting adventures.
Degree of Romance: It is hard to be romantic with an Aquarius because he puts the value on friendship. When he refers to her as “best friend” the lady bull may not understand the complement fully. This man is not into flowers, candy, handholding or special feelings. All Aquarians seem to have a time space issue where they crowd as much as they possibly can into each hour of every day. She has got to be prepared to get up early and go to bed late if you want to keep up with this dynamo. Of course, this leaves little or no time for romance, which he will consider a complete and utter waste of time.
Degree of Passion: Both these signs are capable of intense focus which passes for passion; however, it will be toward, in the case of Taurus, material possessions, and in the case of Aquarius, The Cause. They can lead two separate lives if they get to know each other well enough, and it will be very helpful if Taurus shows some passion his projects.
Degree of Friendship: This is one sign combination that can have a high degree of genuine friendship (which Aquarians value above everything else). He has a humanitarian streak and code of honor that insists he devote himself to the well-being of his fellow traveling companions on the planet. She will have to extend herself a little. It will help if she can hook up with some people in his network (again, to show support for his cause). Tauruses are not unfriendly but the act of extending herself is not necessarily natural.
Degree of Marriage: These two could stick out a miserable situation for a long, long time because each one is too stubborn to admit they have made a mistake. Please look outside yourself for comment as necessary as to the appropriateness of your liaison. In some cases the facade of a marriage is maintained while Aquarius vacates the premises at every possible occasion and gives Taurus the money to furnish and provide for the home. Tauruses can withstand a lot of loneliness.
Progression of Relationship: This relationship has a lot of pushing and shoving in a psychic sense. Each is bossy and thinks they know how to make progress. Taurus is possessive, and she has a long list of activities and even duties that she expects the Aquarian to do, whereas Aquarius is always interested in closure so he can move on to other things. If he is interested in her, he may try to rope and tie the lady bull so he can get back to the rest of the rodeo.
Sex: Taurus wonders how you can have sex outside your body, where Aquarius invented virtual sex long before the Internet came around. It’s not that Aquarians believe in fantasies, but they are capable of communing with the others in a sort of Vulcan mind merge. The energy connection is satisfying to the Aquarian and substitutes nicely for two bodies meeting. Naturally, this is not going to go over well with the Taurus at all, but then she is perfectly capable of satisfying herself if it comes to that.
When It’s Over: Most of the fireworks inherent in this combination will come at the end. Taurus has a spectacular temper and Aquarians are able to stomp off on a dime. The willfulness of each sign makes compromise difficult and explosions inevitable. Taurus may think she owns the Aquarian, which is a disaster waiting to happen since you can’t control an Aquarian whatsoever. Any Aquarian worth his salt knows that all he has to do is leave to assert his famous independence. I have an image of a magician handing an empty hat to a bystander who shakes his head saying, “Where did he go? Where did he go?”
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