Famous Gemini-Cancer Couples: Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise, Wallace Simpson and the Duke of Windsor, Jessica Tandy and Hume Cronyn
This is one of the most romantic, etheric and delightful combinations imaginable. Gemini women are among the most sought after and Cancer men are prized as “good husband material”. When flirtatious, gregarious Gemini meets sweet, comforting Cancer, the violins start to play. These two create a busy, happy personal world with friends and interests centered around the home. No world dominion required for fulfillment, thank you very much. Parents and siblings may be especially important for socializing. Likely they love each other’s company while the sound of each other’s voice is this side of heaven. Gemini keeps things interesting while Cancer provides a serene anchor in a busy whirl of interests and activities. Thanks to Gemini, there are always other people around which warms Cancers heart.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Gemini Woman: It’s ok to be as flirtatious as you like. It brings out his warmth and sweetness. His conversation is not likely to be as witty or clever as you would like but give him a chance. His compliments are genuinely caring and he has a high degree of integrity. Most importantly, laugh at his cutesy little jokes. Even though you’ve definitely heard better, his humor is whimsical and a big part of his social skill set. It’s a clue to his inner world. This is the guy most likely to be asked (believe it or not), “Heard any good jokes lately?”
How to Attract a Gemini Woman as a Cancer Man: She loves to talk and she’s curious about everything so start with some questions. Show what a good listener you are. Try some variety in dating — dinner, a movie, an art exhibit, a nice chat at Starbucks. Ask her about current events and celebrities, the latest films or political gaffes (nothing too heavy).
Degree of Romance: These two dance to the same music. Their relationship is bound to include great romance. Gemini is famous for keeping things interesting and it’s no different in the romance department. With Cancer a willing play partner, she is full of surprises. Gemini is a great flirt and tease while Cancer responds with just the right appreciation and encouragement.
Degree of Passion: This relationship tends to stay at a more superficial level than passion. Neither sign bring out jealousy or possessiveness in the other and their emotions are delightfully straightforward.
Degree of Friendship: These two make close personal friends. They can share day to day interests, small talk and routine activities til the cows come home! Likely they have a merry band of followers, other friends who keep up with them through tweeting, facebook, IM and texting. They wouldn’t want to be a moment alone during the day so the door is always open to communicate.
Degree of Marriage: A great combination for marriage! They can focus on each other and building a life together without the distraction of heavy psychological issues, overly dominant career plans or complicated emotional drama. They are focused on having good friends, good times, a happy home, delightful children and interesting vacations.
Progression of Relationship: Cancer is very protective and careful about building a relationship. He makes sure she feels comfortable and secure every step of the way. Although she hardly needs it, he reassures her she is #1 and special by words and deeds. Cancers don’t play games, being security oriented and nurturing, and Gemini, though a wicked game player under some circumstances, is not encouraged to be that way by a Cancer. He gives her so much steady and sincere attention, it takes her restlessness away.
Sex: Sex between a Cancer man and a Gemini woman is like a beautiful piece of music. The melody is introduced and then embellished to infinite delight. Familiarity is combined with flourishes and bouquets. There is a special kind of subtlety that is introduced the more the get to know each other’s tastes and talents.
When It’s Over: Gemini and Cancer need to have patience with one another a good deal of the time. Air (Gemini) and water (Cancer) need to extend each other courtesies lest she run roughshod over his insecurities and he appear to cling so close as to bind her butterfly wings. If worse comes to worse Gemini will have to code it. The unwinding will be messy and plant seeds for endless future contention because Cancer will have to handle all the responsibilities and he doesn’t want to end it. Always in the back of his mind is the hope of “neverending love” and reconciliation even as she flips her petticoats on the way out the door to get a breath of fresh air. He whispers after her, “I know you’ll be back” while she flips over her shoulder, “Get a life!”
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