Famous Cancer-Aquarius Couples: Nancy Davis and Ronald Reagan, Robert Wagner and Natalie Wood, Charles Lindbergh and Anne Morrow
The hidden quality in this relationship is a something they share called “zaniness”. Both parties see the world a little tilted and enjoy their perspectives immensely. There is some gender bending as well. The Cancer man is nurturing and caring while the Aquarius woman provides clarity and vision. As you can see by the famous couples listed, it can be a very positive and enduring relationship. All three of the couples are synonymous with “great loves”. Cancer is the most protective sign while Aquarius is the boldest. Often the man is looking for an intellectual component – a cold shower as it were – which is a big relief to the Aquarius woman who is too often expected to dumb down. Her intellectual capabilities come not in terms of logic, culture or education. Rather it is her strokes of genius which come in terms of inspiration, bolts out of the blue, those shocking things Aquarians say with which there is no arguing and after which you never look at the world the same way again. Their deepest connection, however, comes from Aquarius’ desire to lead a conventional lifestyle and Cancer’s ability to provide just that. Having a big sweet hunk of a guy take care of you, gives Aquarius the perfect cover. People will think she’s normal, just like other women.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as an Aquarius Woman: Be opinionated, independent and aloof. Act like you’ve gotta wear the pants. When involved as a couple he needs to know that you’ll play Bad Cop to his Good Cop. It’s essential to his modus operandi.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Cancer Man: Trot out your traditional offerings: home, family, security, emotional comfort, protection and serenity. It will look like a shrine to her, an altar to everything she considers holy! LOL
Degree of Romance: This relationship has an etheric sweetness to it which surpasses romanticism because it is quite genuinely streaming from the higher planes. I swear at times these two can hear the angels sing.
Degree of Passion: This relationship is open to higher vibrations than passion. There is a kind of soul harmony music that passes between them, like playing a human harp at just the right pitch.
Degree of Friendship: These two can be quite devoted to one another especially as there is little ego connection between them. They can be selfless in each other’s presence like no two other people.
Degree of Marriage: This seemingly unlikely combination makes an excellent and lasting marriage. Cancers never want to end anything and Aquarians are among the most loyal of the zodiac. Both “believe in” marriage. Cancer thrives on the idea of home (nest) (haven) and comfort while Aquarius craves having what she thinks everyone else has. Aquarians pay a huge price for their Promethean qualities and often stand alone and exposed in the world they are trying to help. Cancer gives them a safe place to take respite.
Progression of Relationship: Nobody does relationships like a Cancer though it may be a bit cloying at time for Ms. Aquarius. He will make her feel wanted, needed and treasured. He is a good planner and a thoughtful companion. Every detail of her comfort will be considered (Is it warm enough for you? Do you know where the ladies room is? Should I push the seat back farther?) Once he introduces you to his mother, I mean family, you know you’re in! Ms. Aquarius will eat up the conventionality, having to pinch herself to believe 1) it’s real and 2) it’s happening to her. At last, she has a “Good Housekeeping” relationship!
Sex: Their sexual union approaches communion, that wordless and perfect merging of two souls in two bodies.
When It’s Over: It’s not likely to end if both are secure individuals. If one or the other gets off balance, it can turn pretty cold. Aquarius tortures Cancer, turning on him and accusing him of being clingy and needy while Cancer accuses Aquarius of not being a real woman.
Our Rating: 9/10