♈♊♌♎♐ Couples’ Zodiac Compatibility and Synastry

Zodiac sun signs are grouped into four essential elements that when combined, create the world and allow life to flourish. Each of the 12 astrology signs falls under a specific element and the 4 elements help in understanding everybody’s place in the world. The zodiac sign elements are Air, Water, Earth, and Fire.

Zodiac elements are extremely symbolic with the astrology sign that they represent. They will help you gain a greater understanding of people’s zodiac signs and what they do in life.

The astrology elements are just as important to the characteristics and personality traits of a person as their zodiac sun sign. Each sun sign has some basic personality traits that are shared by all people born under that sign, at least to some degree. Men and women of the same sign manifest the characteristics of the zodiac differently. No Two Individuals Are Exactly Alike. With so many possible combinations of sun and moon signs as well as other aspects in each individual’s chart, it’s easy to see why every person is so unique. Use the articles on this website as a study guide, one that just might help you to forge stronger, more compatible relationships with the people around you.

Zodiac signs compatibility or Synastry is the practice of comparing how the planets and houses in two people’s charts relate to each other. The primary way astrologers do this is when taking into account the precise hour and place of birth of both partners and by looking at where one’s planets fall in relation to their partner’s houses (especially the angles).

The star sign, meaning the position of the sun, does reveal us apart of the compatibility’s nature, but if we look at the sun sign only, we neglect very important planets such as Moon, Venus, and Mars.

Venus and Mars are a key element in understanding sexual compatibility and the challenges the partners have for each other in the connection. Mars in a woman’s zodiac chart is the man she is attracted to. Venus in a man’s zodiac chart represents the lover figure that turns him on.

The moon has more to do with emotional connection. The moon tells us what we need to feel intimacy, to feel like we belong. In a men’s chart, it represents his emotional world, his subconsciousness, the mother he needed, and the mother of his children.

We can say some zodiac signs compatibility is much more natural than others, sometimes there is harsh friction between specific signs but it does not mean they are not compatible. Friction between two signs can lead to a wonderful Completion or a never-ending war. The partners are doomed to keep fighting or to learn and evolve from one another.

The key to understanding zodiac compatibility between couples is understanding the basic rules in the zodiac chart. If we look at an astrological chart we see 12 signs aligned in a 360° circle. The signs that are positioned in front of each other (180°) have friction. Zodiac star signs that are 90° to one another are at war and it’s harder to bridge the gaps. Finding the common ground for them may hold a key to personal growth leaps, in life and relationships.

Compatible zodiac signs for couples:

Compatible signs can be from the same element (fire and fire, water and water) or star signs that find different common ground with each other.

The fire elements are all connected to adventures, creation, happiness, fun, and action.

The water elements wish to melt into each other, connect, and dig deep into emotions.

Earth signs are looking for a feeling of stability in life and don’t care for unexpected changes.

Air signs like to challenge and be challenged intellectually, they love changes, and more than anything they love to talk.

Zodiac sign compatibility with friction:

Libra sign and Aries have a 180° in the zodiac chart and have a funny dialogue between them. Libra’s personality is connected to the word harmony, just like the first date when both partners are showing the pretty side of themselves, there is no friction. I will tell you how beautiful you are and you will say I’m smart.

Aries’s personality is connected to the word war, or friction. They would like to see others around them charmed, but will not tolerate “harmony”. For Aries there is no truth if there is no war, he understands and thinks that to have a true relationship each one will have to bring his own individual needs and will, friction for Aries is a natural in a healthy relationship. When he comes out with fire it’s innocent and without any need to hurt his partner. Aries wishes to have a partner that will not fear his fire and will be strong enough to fire back.

Compatible signs for war:

Aries sign and cancer have a difficult gap to bridge, one is introverted and the other has the most active fire of all fire signs. Aries forgets a quarrel a second after it’s over but cancer goes into a deep long and heavy diagnosis of emotions. After 3 months of digesting the incident, he comes back to his partner and says:

Do you remember the fight we had three months ago? So, I realized why you were angry, and when that happened I felt guilty, and then…

For Aries this could be a cause for laughter, temporary shock, or just the motivation he needed that day to get angry with someone…

Cancer is challenged to be more extroverted, less vulnerable and sensitive, and a lot lighter with concurring life. Aries has a chance to learn how to control his outbursts, stop his reaction and observe emotions inside him. Through Cancer, he can learn the very basics of self-awareness.

Can we really say who is compatible in a couple?

Still, it is difficult to say what is compatible and what is not. If a person is drowned to give unconditionally and without healthy boundaries, he would invite a partner into his life that may do just the opposite.

If one side is a victim and the other needs to take and take, are they compatible?

• Yes: Through his partner’s help in becoming a victim he can evolve his understanding of the balance between giving and receiving in a relationship. His partner can learn that no matter how much he takes there’s still a bottomless pit inside him that nothing he gets can really fill it up and it’s time to heal that endless hole inside and learn about giving.

• Yes: Some couples will not choose to evolve, a change is a threat to them, and need each other to support their fears.

• No: Sometimes comes a point in a relationship when one side evolves and the other stays behind, in that point there’s nothing to do but break up.

So, every relationship is compatible until it stops being so, or keeps going…